INFJ again

"INFJs often have, without formal training, skills in group dynamics. Almost psychically, they are aware of various level of interaction between and among people. However, such awareness remains largely their own, and efforts to make the observations known to others can be frustrating to INFJs".

"INFJs' longing for harmony is such a driving force that they sometimes create tension in their relationships by working so determinedly to eliminate it. they would do better to work out tensions within themselves than to focus on external conflicts, because they often carry very heavy burdens. In some ways, this fosters a sense of martyrdom typically of Feelers generally. The INFJ goal of harmony is particularly difficult to achieve because the model for it is rarely articulated, though the drive toward it is nonetheless unrelenting".

***Guess "It" has INFJ personality.